Every culture on the planet seems subject to this law: It’s the law of reciprocation. The rule says that when people do us a favour, we feel obligated to give something back in return.
Even our language reflects this rule: when we say, “I owe you one” or “much obliged”, we really do mean it, don’t we?
I think every one of us has experienced the force of this rule at some point in our lives. To give you an example: just the other day, I asked for some advice on a marketing forum, and offered a small cash reward for a quick answer. (I find cash rewards always seem to bring out the best in people!)
I got the answer I needed, and asked the person where I should send their cash reward. Rather than sending him the money, he asked me to sign up to some email project instead. My sense of obligation kicked in, and so I dutifully complied.
It was only immediately afterwards that I felt the sense of irony - here was me, a master at “Internet Influence Magic”, being held to the law of reciprocity! Not that I minded signing up - it was free, after all. But I didn’t sign up so much out of desire as out of obligation. Nevertheless, I signed up.
Now, I don’t know if, as you read that last paragraph, you started to realize the incredible importance of reciprocation to your selling efforts. This law of reciprocation has massive implications for your marketing - you just might not be aware of them all yet. Don’t worry, as you read this blog, you will be!
For instance, in the next post I’ll show you how one company used this law of reciprocation to achieve an amazing 76% response to a survey they sent out. Are you getting that kind of response? If not, you’ll definitely want to see how they did it.
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14 Responses
Chris Garrett
July 20th, 2007 at 12:12 pm
1This law is partly why so many people subscribe to my RSS
Paul Hancox
July 20th, 2007 at 1:57 pm
2And I think you have yet another RSS subscriber, too
DazzlinDonna
July 20th, 2007 at 2:48 pm
3This one post has given me a burst of ideas! Thank you. Looking forward to lots more from you. And yes, I subscribed.
Paul Hancox
July 20th, 2007 at 3:24 pm
4DazzlinDonna, thanks
And I love the look of your site, by the way - nice use of purple!
Dee
July 20th, 2007 at 5:04 pm
5This is ironic Paul. You stopped by my blog and left a nice comment and here I am on your blog as a reciprocation of what you did
The law of reciprocation is widely used… specially online where people find it easier to reciprocate. I do use this law to market my blog… it doesn’t work all the time but it does work most of the time.
Interesting blog, Paul. I’ll definitely be coming back
Marc
July 21st, 2007 at 4:06 pm
6I never considered it before, but this law is absolutely true. When I check my new inbound links I feel a distinct compulsion to visit those sites. And as often as not, I sign up for the rss, so much so that I am considering cleaning my feeds out, there are just so many of them. And yes, I signed up for your rss, too
Alex
July 21st, 2007 at 4:46 pm
7Thanks for dropping by my blog
reciprocation has incredible power … as an author of Reciprocal Review Carousel I can attest to it and posted some direct results on my blog …
Cheers
Alex
Franck Silvestre
July 21st, 2007 at 4:55 pm
8As an example, when you visited my blog, I immediately followed the link, and came to post a comment here…
I am now a reader… And waiting for your next posts.
How do I get more traffic to my blog?
August 1st, 2007 at 4:32 pm
9[…] 4) Link to other blogs in your niche. (they will link back to you, read those post on the law of reciprocation) […]
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August 2nd, 2007 at 9:11 am
10[…] type comment - that’s all you really need, for now.) I talk about why this works so well in my reciprocation post on my blog. Just make sure your comments on your fellow bloggers blogs add to their discussion. […]
Scott
August 3rd, 2007 at 12:24 pm
11Fascinating concept. You’ve definitely got another reader
Paul Hancox
August 3rd, 2007 at 12:55 pm
12Hi Scott - it is indeed! Welcome, and I like the pic
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August 3rd, 2007 at 8:47 pm
13[…] reader’s way of thanking you for the content (see my Internet Influence Magic post on the law of reciprocity), for contributing to the discussion, and for new readers it’s the first small commitment to […]
Udo
February 5th, 2008 at 11:06 pm
14So, anyone know how to link to this article?
I would like to practice my reciprocation … lol
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